So, I was away from WordPress and blogging for a couple of weeks. While I missed the cornucopia of posts of my blogger friends, I was actually celebrating one of the most precious occasions of my life, my sister’s wedding.
Well, as my Indian readers know, Indian weddings start a week before the auspicious day and, the celebration continues for another seven days post-wedding. It’s a family get-together in the largest scale where all the relatives from both the bride and groom’s sides join and enjoy to the fullest accompanied by music, dance, delicious cuisines and traditional rituals.
So, it started with a music session where the bride, bridesmaid and every other woman present use mehndi or henna to make designs on their hands. Mehndi is a paste created from the powdered leaves of henna plants (Lawsonia inermis). A Mehndi artist attended the ceremony and wonderfully made intricate designs on our hands. The arabesque patterns made on the bride’s hands were fascinating.
We, Bengalis, have another ritual where we apply a paste of turmeric and milk to the bride and the groom. According to the Vedic custom, turmeric is considered as a plant representing the sun and, application of the paste symbolizes good luck to the couple. Every single rite and ritual has a meaning of its own and is performed with austerity and tradition.
Of all the customs and rituals of Hindu marriage, perhaps the most important are the Sanskrit mantras (chants) and the Seven Vows (Saptapadi in Sanskrit) taken in front of the sacred fire. On the marriage day itself, in presence of a priest, family, all the relatives and guests, the bride and the groom make seven promises to each other taking seven steps together encircling the sacred fire. All along, they say the ‘mantras’ and asks the Gods and Goddesses to bless them with food, strength, fidelity, progeny, wealth, comfort and health.
The ritual of applying vermillion or sindoor daan (a symbol of married Hindu women) is then followed. The groom applies the vermillion on the bride’s forehead for the first time chanting the mantra,
यदेतद्धृदयं तव
तदस्तु हृदयं मम ।
यदिदं हृदयं मम
तदस्तु हृदयं तव ॥
Loosely translated as, “The heart of thine shall be mine, and this heart of mine shall be thine.”
The bride and groom, after this, exchange the wedding rings and all the guests present, wish them. This ring-exchange ceremony often happens a day before marriage in some families.
Now, at this moment, my sister and brother-in-law are on their honeymoon to Egypt. My sister has promised me to write a guest post for my blog on her trip. So, stay tuned for that.
I’ve missed a lot of posts during the time. I’ll soon catch up with you all. #HappyBlogging
Best wishes to the bride and groom and families.
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Thanks a lot… 🙂
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Many congratulations to your sister and family! The photographs are wonderful. I hope the newly-weds are having a great honeymoon in Egypt. 🙂
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Yeah..they will be in Egypt for two more days. Thanks a lot, Bun… 🙂
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Wonderful pictures, Maniparna…you and your sister both look incredibly beautiful. Many blessings upon their marriage!
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Thanks a lot, Sue. I’ll convey your words to my sister… 🙂
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What an auspicious occasion this is! truly beautiful. I hope the nose ring is not sore. I missed you and great to have you back Maniparna. I also look forward to seeing your sister’s take on Egypt these days.😀
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Thanks a lot, Chevy. Truly it was a great occasion for us! No, the nose-ring is quite lightweight in comparison to the size… she wore it for the wedding evening only… 🙂
By the way, my sister too read your posts on Egypt … 🙂
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So glad to see you again. You all looked so beautiful. Wow – your sister read my posts. Well, I hope they have a great time there.😀
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They will be there for two more days….yes, they are enjoying the trip to the fullest… 🙂 It feels great to be back on the blogosphere and talking, though virtually to friends like you… 🙂
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Same here. I’m looking forward to that post and out future conversations.
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Hi Maniparna
First of all, you & your sister look gorgeous! Many congratulations and blessings to the new couple!
It was wonderful to read this post, almost felt like a guest at the wedding 🙂 So much colour, so much vibrancy!
Eagerly waiting for your sister’s post on Egypt!
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Thanks so much for your warm words of appreciation, Divya… 🙂
The guest post will come up soon… 🙂
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Heartiest Congratulations to all of you 🙂 It must have been an emotional and happy journey! She looks absolutely in the moment… gorgeous and glowing 🙂
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Thanks a lot on behalf of the family, Prajakta… 🙂
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Wishes to the newly weds. Superb wedding photos. Loved it. 🙂
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Thanks a lot, Meera… 🙂
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Lovely wedding pics. Hope u had a blast:)
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I did, Vishal. Thank you so much… 🙂
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Lovely pictures! Wishing the handsome couple a lifetime of happiness and togetherness. 🙂
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Thank you, Balroop… 🙂
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Congrats to your sister and welcome back!
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Thanks so much, brother Wendell… 🙂
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Lovely 🙂
Congrats ❤
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Thank you!
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Thanks so much for sharing this special event! Lovely pictures
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Thanks, Lynn, for stopping by… 🙂
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Congratulations to the couple ! Wish them a happy married life Maniparna 🙂
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Thanks so much, Renu… 🙂
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Congrats to the Couple!!
Hope you had a blast!!
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Yes, I really had…thank you… 🙂
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BTW you look really pretty…..so does the bride!!!
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Haha…the glow of happiness… 😀
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Well Said!!
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Congratulations to your your sister on wedding. Wishing them a happy, blissful married life. Liked your picture with your sister, both looking very beautiful.
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Thank you so much… 🙂
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Thanks for sharing this happy time with us Maniparna – I also would like to send wishes for food, strength, fidelity, progeny, wealth, comfort and health to your sister and brother-in-law. I too look forward to the guest post. The pictures are amazing and you all look very happy and beautiful 🙂
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Thanks on behalf of the family, Andy…:-) I’ll surely convey your wishes to them…. 🙂
The guest post will be there in a week or two…
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Congratulations to your sister on her wedding. Eagerly waiting for her post also. May her world be replete with divine happiness.
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Thanks so much, Barnali, for your wishes… 🙂
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I learned so many things by reading your post. Amazing and pictures are perfect. Welcome back to WordPress
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Thanks a lot, Alina. I’m really glad you liked the post… 🙂 Good to be back again…
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Wow beautiful pictures. Loved this post. Congratulations to your sister and I will look forward to her guest post 🙂
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Thanks, Purba… the post will be published soon… 🙂
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Welcome back Manparna – the photos of your sister’s wedding are beautiful.
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Thanks a lot, Terry… 🙂
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Very colorful..those decorated veggies really superb.. Wish a happy married life to your sis
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Thanks for the appreciation, Akhila and I’ll convey the wishes to my sis… 🙂
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😘😘
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Arre aapki shadi hogayi na Akhila wese🤓🤓🤓
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Ha ha.. In kerala it’s different sumit…
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Accha😅😅😅😅
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Congratulations to your sister! I love your photos and your sister looks beautiful! Thank you for sharing this special moment with us!
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Thanks a lot, Antonia 🙂 It’s a pleasure sharing those special moments with my fellow bloggers… 🙂
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nicely written… the rituals in Bengali marriage are all scientific and i just love them. you are looking very elegant.
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Thanks a lot. Yes, we often mock about our rites and rituals, but most of them have valid logic behind them… 🙂
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It looks to have been a very special celebration of two lives conjoining, Mani, and the colour and decorations are a pure delight. As far as I know, it is only here in Europe that the Eastern countries celebrate over so many days — Poland being an example. My very best wishes to your sister and brother-in-law, and also, of course, to you too.
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It’s great to know about other people and countries with similar rituals. I’ll look for the Polish marriage rituals.
Thanks so much for your wish, I’ll definitely convey to my sister and brother-in-law… 🙂
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Osadhoron!!
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Thanks … 🙂
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Congrats to your sister and you both are looking lovely. I like Bengali wedding attire. Eager to read the guest post on Egypt.
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Thanks a lot, Upasna. The attire is the traditional red Banarasi saree…
Egypt post coming soon… 🙂
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An excellent reason for being away. Lovely photos and fascinating information.
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Thanks, Derrick. Yes, it was a grand celebration… 🙂
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Hearty congratulations to your sister. May the wedded couple enjoy the marital bliss forever. Hearty thanks for sharing this great news with all of us.
Maniparna Ji, I have recommended you for Bloggers Recommendation Award. The relevant link is :
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Thanks a lot Jitendraji. I’ll convey your wish to them…. 🙂
Thanks again for the nomination and sharing the link… 🙂
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Congratulations and all best wishes to your sister, Maniparna.
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Thanks so much, Mick. I’ll convey your wish to them… 🙂
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congratulations!!! God bless
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Thanks a lot… 🙂
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Congratulations, Maniparna! and blessings to your sister. I wish her a joyful life . You have saved a amount of photographer too 🙂 ?
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Thanks, Yogiji.
Haha…not at all…there was an official videographer. It will take time to deliver the pictures and video taken by the team… 🙂
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What a stunningly beautiful bride. I love the photos Maniparna.
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Thanks a lot, Kalpanaa… 🙂
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Congratulations, Maniparna!
and blessings to your sister 🙂
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Thank you so much, Amitji… 🙂
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CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU AND YOUR SISTER.
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Thanks a lot… 🙂
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Very nice description of Hindu marriage with relevant pictures.
Congratulations to your sister.
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Thank you Jyotirmoy… 🙂 Glad you liked it…
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Congratulations to the newly weds! So now I get where you had been! Beautiful pictures, bful ceremony!
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Haha…thanks a lot, Mandira… 🙂
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Congratulations to your Sister.
Awesome pics.Greetings.
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Thanks so much, Rupam… 🙂
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Congratulations to the lovely couple. You both look so stunning. It’s good to have you back. Mani. 🙂 Looking forward to the guest post.
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Thanks a lot, Asha…the guest post will come soon… 🙂
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Yeah. Ill shall wait.
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That’s so nice of you… 🙂
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Always, dear.
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Many congrats to your sister.😀 How joyous the wedding ceremony was and how blissfully happy the couple is. Equally intriguing were those wedding traditions that helped create so much wonderful memories to you and your family. 🎉
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Yes, the traditions made the event all the more interesting and memorable. Thanks a lot, dear for your wonderful comment… 🙂
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Congratulations to your sister. The pictures and narration are lovely.
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Thanks, Lata….will convey your wish to her…:-)
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Wonderful pics Mani. Yes marriages are yet another occasion for get together.. Both look so stunning
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Thank you so much, Supreet… 🙂
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Beautiful pictures !
Seems Perfect couple
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Thank you so much..:-)
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Wow 14 days of celebration. That is a long time. I take it it is not all day as people work then? Just curious how people make time for 2 weeks of celebration. You look lovely in the first photo. The Mehndi artist really knows how to impress. Congratulations to the bride and groom. Be well.
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The occasions and rituals are performed mostly in the evening. So, we can attend offices in the daytime. Though, I took a weeklong leave from my work to enjoy 🙂
Thanks a lot for the wish, I’ll convey it to the couple… 🙂
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Thank you. 🙂
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🙂 … welcome…
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Best wishes to your sister and her husband 🌷🌷 Beautiful pictures!
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Thanks a lot, Radhika… 🙂
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Wonderful pics and story. Thanks so much.
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Thank you for stopping by… 🙂
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Congratulations to your beautiful sister and her husband …..thanks for sharing this special day with all of us…can’t wait to read about their trip…
Great pictures it was nice to see them
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Thanks a lot, Sara. It always feels nice to hear from you… ❤
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Congrats to your family, Mani! What wonderful photos and such a colourful Bengali wedding 🎉🎉 That sounds like a lot of celebrations and a lot of merry-making, celebrating to good times and making it one big memorable moment. Very creative decorations 😊
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Absolutely, Mabel. It was a family reunion and everyone enjoyed a lot. I’ll cherish the moments forever.
Thank you so much… 🙂
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Congratulations! I hope I say this right: tumi and tomar didi, Khoob bhalo laagbey! You and your sister, look very beautiful.
Look forward to the blog on Egypt and the newly weds.
And if you get sometime, I’d love for you to stop by my blog sometime for some e-interacts. Thanks!
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Thank you so much! Glad that you tried to convey the wish in Bengali… 😀 I visited your blog but, somehow, couldn’t comment on all of your posts but one 😦 Will you please check with the comment section? It’s not showing up…
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It shows after moderation. But thanks! You are welcome… my Bengali is always a work in profress😄
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I’ve been following you for a while. It’s done that before. I’ll reset again and see. I wish I was tech savvier
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Thank you. I think the comment section under individual post needs a reset. Though I’ve very little technical knowledge as well… 😀
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Thank you for sharing your traditions and amazing photographs. You and your sister look radiant, her husband very handsome. The mehndi patterns are beautiful. Congratulations to you and the newlyweds. 🙂
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Thanks so much, Mr O’Mara 🙂 I’ll convey your wishes to them… 🙂
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Beautiful pictures. Thanks for letting me know about your rituals and traditions. Really like the post.
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Thank you… 🙂
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