Fear is one of our worst enemies. Everyone gets afraid at some point of life and perhaps the most primal fear is the fear of darkness. I remember my childhood days when I was terribly afraid of the dark. My mother invented an unique way to drive off my fear of darkness. She used to put my favourite doll at the darkest corner of the house and the only way to collect it was to go there myself getting over my fear. I used to throw tantrums and sometimes even cried but maa was determined. Slowly, I learnt to gather courage in order to recover my doll from the dark. I also learnt that darkness is nothing but absence of light and no shadowy creature would pounce upon me from behind. That was my first lesson to enslave fear.
Life teaches us new things every now and then…..including new fear. Few years ago, I went with my friends to Gangtok. We were sure to enjoy our stay in the picturesque town and what made us more excited, that there was a place nearby from where we could do paragliding. All of us got thrilled and the very next day we reached at Baliman Dara, the take-off point for paragliding. My enthusiasm just washed out as soon as we reached there. The very sight of para-gliders rising high above the ground churned my intestine. Though there were certified pilots to accompany every inexperienced yet adventurous tourist but that was not enough inspiration for me. “What if the harness suddenly fails to hold the pressure and the weight? What will happen if wind begins to blow roughly?” I asked one of my friends who was trying to encourage me. He nodded his head in frustration saying,”you’re missing experience of a lifetime”.
I watched as my friends, one by one, flew like birds and everyone was overwhelmed with the breathtakingly beautiful aerial view. They were overjoyed and even were planning to come back next day. While hearing their conversation, something jolted me from inside. What am I doing? I’m becoming a slave to my fear …..the figment of fright is misleading me and if I fail to overcome, my cowardice will mock me for the rest of my life. I must face my fear to win over it.
I decided to take the challenge, I wanted to face the fear with all my strength. I chose to consort with courage and as I announced my decision, my friends cheered me up.
Numbness and trepidation paralyzed my other emotions as soon as my paragliding pilot helped me to sit in harness which was attached to the paraglider. The take-off moment took my breath away and I tightly closed my eyes. I could feel strong wind blowing by my side and we were no longer on ground. Slowly I opened my eyes to witness the most beautiful sight of my lifetime! The view of snow clad mountains, small villages which looked like miniature paintings, serpentine roads…all made me speechless! The feeling was like that of a bird. I forgot all about my fear, I felt blessed to witness such beauty of nature. We were up there for hardly 7/8 minutes, but those are the most memorable moments of my lifetime. Not only for the exotic view but also for the reason that I succeeded to rise above my fear. It was my victory over intimidation and insecurity…over my fear. I still cherish those wonderful moments of my life.
The latest advertisement of Mountain Dew says the same. #RiseAboveFear to take control of your life and to claim victory. Do watch the advertisement for it’s entertainment as well as inspirational value. To know more view their Facebook page as well.
This post is written as an entry for Indi Happy Hours #RiseAboveFear Campaign in association with Indiblogger and Mountain Dew
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Wow, Maniparna…that is wonderful. You conquered your fear. Something to be proud of. 🙂
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Thank you so much Elizabeth…. 🙂
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When I realized that you can’t have courage without fear I gained a lot more courage. I also learned that if you keep facing your fears they fade away.
Some great thoughts. I appreciate your sharing your experience. We can learn so much from one another.
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Yes….I think the most interesting and enjoyable part of blogging is that we learn from each other…about each others culture, society and country… and we make new friends… 🙂
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you actually did it?? am so proud of you. i have a feeling i would not have been able to take off. it requires courage and a faith in yourself.
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I did it.. 😀 after much hesitation and fear…. but the feeling was wonderful..felt really like a bird 🙂
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You are surely going to remember this experience for always 😄
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I know it must be an unforgettable experience, but whoa… hahaha! Not so courageous still 😉
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Hehe..I know… not so courageous for brave people 😛
HI Lily..welcome to my blog 🙂
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Great experience to beat the fear! Paragliding is certainly a worth to do, glad that you manage to eliminate the fear!!
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Yes, I was really afraid but still managed it 😀 great experience indeed…
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Super! I feel that pit in my stomach even as I come down a merry-go-round…or is it Ferris’ wheel?
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Thanks Sweety..I think it’s Ferris wheel… 🙂
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Very inspiring post and your experience in overcoming fear. Yes we cannot afford to allow fear to overcome us as it can have deep roots. It’s best to generate positivity as our shield by leading a active and vigorous life sports, jogging walking, yoga and the likes.
With regards 🙂
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Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts… 🙂
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Fear can hold you prisoner,Hope can set you free! From the movie Shwashank Redemption. Well written. All the best!
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So true are the words! Thank you.. 🙂
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I hope you submitted in time 🙂
I am also doing something like this some day, I hope 😀
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It’s really a memorable incident for me.. 😀
I think I couldn’t make it this time, timely… 🙂
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Memorable incidents are the best when shared more than when it wins 😉
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Indeed…but acknowledgement makes those incidents “bestest” 😀 😀
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Seriously rising above fear would take you way ahead in life!
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Yes, it always do… 🙂
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I always wanted to Bungee jumping, but that will be again adrenaline blowing in skull away from my shoulder. But paragliding in Gangtok, I can do 🙂
Good luck for the contest, hope you win.
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*Bungee jump
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Yes, it’s not that much tough as I thought it to be. 😀 I would like to go for it again…
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I think you should bungee jump 😀
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